tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post116890454228889095..comments2023-12-16T22:38:40.273-08:00Comments on .: Rock hard, pulsating, heaving, damp, tender, thobbing.menohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18065283682414369608noreply@blogger.comBlogger34125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1169067823162064382007-01-17T13:03:00.000-08:002007-01-17T13:03:00.000-08:00The Wolf & the Dove! Aislinn! Wulfgar! Oh I loved ...The Wolf & the Dove! Aislinn! Wulfgar! Oh I loved that book. My first, too.sharahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14058381468146433964noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1169044634293783532007-01-17T06:37:00.000-08:002007-01-17T06:37:00.000-08:00I was 14 when I stole my Mom's "SEX" book. She fou...I was 14 when I stole my Mom's "SEX" book. She found it underneath my bean bag chain while moving my bedroom around. <BR/><BR/>Yeah...<BR/><BR/>That was an awkward day.Tinkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16188363142469404823noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1168999102524288952007-01-16T17:58:00.000-08:002007-01-16T17:58:00.000-08:00Forced procreation never felt so good.Forced procreation never felt so good.eganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03783658744477659987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1168998084077766452007-01-16T17:41:00.000-08:002007-01-16T17:41:00.000-08:00I hate sappy romances, and love raunchy books when...I hate sappy romances, and love raunchy books when people have sex or want to like all the time. One time I bought a really fetish/erotic book that made all the raunchy ones look tame. The worst part was, I liked it. It made me blush, but I liked it. I blushed a little when my mom read one of my skanky books.Bobealia...https://www.blogger.com/profile/15713026993668872520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1168981903189215182007-01-16T13:11:00.000-08:002007-01-16T13:11:00.000-08:00sanjay, oh, that makes sense. Blogger has been gi...sanjay, oh, that makes sense. Blogger has been giving me a world of trouble lately so i though it might be me.<BR/><BR/>mona, Actually these two things might happen in rapid succession. Cheers!<BR/><BR/>dick, amazing what a change of perspective can bring! <BR/><BR/>julie, i never knew they were color-coded. I'm a headin' straight for the black.<BR/><BR/>chani, that is one concern, but she seems to be having lots of fun with these books. She'a already read 3 of them. Of course the 4th snow day in a row with a long weekend thrown in makes for lots of reading time.<BR/><BR/>patches, fiction is much less messy than the real thing. And safer too. I'll tell the vibrator story in a few days, don't worry.<BR/><BR/>egan, well get your butt on home and get a workin' on it buddy! I want to see results within 2 months!!!<BR/><BR/>maggie, oh, Lady Chatterly's Lover. Sigh. I may have read that a few times myself.menohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18065283682414369608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1168980097700452662007-01-16T12:41:00.000-08:002007-01-16T12:41:00.000-08:00I dont remember reading romance novels. I snuck L...I dont remember reading romance novels. I snuck Lady Chatterly's Lover out of my brother's bedroom to read though. I don't think my parents even knew he had it. That was quite juicy and titillating.<BR/><BR/>As for the parenting, I'm hoping that frankness and willingness to talk will be a key. It seems to be working. I've used a lot of the things I learned here. :-)Lynneahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08255266354171825474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1168979041610583932007-01-16T12:24:00.000-08:002007-01-16T12:24:00.000-08:00A few? Why stop there? I want an entire baseball...A few? Why stop there? I want an entire baseball team.eganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03783658744477659987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1168977901025210512007-01-16T12:05:00.000-08:002007-01-16T12:05:00.000-08:00Hmmm. So young men learn all they want to know fro...Hmmm. So young men learn all they want to know from picture books and young women learn from racy novels....but both prefer fiction for their sexual educations....interesting. <BR/><BR/>Looking forward to the vibrator story. But I really must ask, was she considerate enough to send you a hand written thank you note....or did she just shout into the phone in broken cadence?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1168973373541282122007-01-16T10:49:00.000-08:002007-01-16T10:49:00.000-08:00Very interesting. LOL .. It is interesting how you...Very interesting. LOL .. It is interesting how young people learn about sex these days. Those novels will certain ly set them up for unmet expectations! :)<BR/><BR/><BR/>Peace, <BR/><BR/>~chanithailandchanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10171731740204067889noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1168970763233690672007-01-16T10:06:00.000-08:002007-01-16T10:06:00.000-08:00So are the romances still color-coded? I remember...So are the romances still color-coded? I remember my grandma had a box of them - the pastel ones were tame, the red ones were juicier and the black ones were totally off limits (but you can guess which ones we read first).Julie Q.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13737557893649934725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1168968879924816062007-01-16T09:34:00.000-08:002007-01-16T09:34:00.000-08:00I do think I had fewer worries since I raised two ...I do think I had fewer worries since I raised two boys, but they both now have daughters. Ages 6 and 9 so there is probably some time before they have to worry much about this but it is sure interesting to see how their attitude toward girls has changed from when they were teenagers dating to now when they are thinking about their future teenage daughters dating.Dickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12381970360203140143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1168968176963078532007-01-16T09:22:00.000-08:002007-01-16T09:22:00.000-08:00First I have to get Girl-child through tampons and...First I have to get Girl-child through tampons and spotty sheets...THEN you can tell me how to buy her a vibrator!Mona Buonanottehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01809435868294190789noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1168964056549023852007-01-16T08:14:00.000-08:002007-01-16T08:14:00.000-08:00I don't know what's up with the comment thing. One...<I> I don't know what's up with the comment thing. One place says 2 comments and one says 7.<BR/></I><BR/><BR/>Meno. I set up the Haloscan comments cos Diana had some trouble commenting during the whole beta blogger thingie. I left it in there, maybe I should take them out?<BR/><BR/>Use either one, I read both of them, most folks use the link to the right which is blogger comments.karmichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10973922761187532706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1168962477210634182007-01-16T07:47:00.000-08:002007-01-16T07:47:00.000-08:00D-man, ha ha! Just you wait. I attended a planned...D-man, ha ha! Just you wait. I attended a planned parenthood sex ed thingie with Em when she was 11. They told the girls that a good indicator of when they would get to puberty was the age their parents had done so. We had driven with another girl and i heard Em in the back saying "i'm going to ask daddy when he had his first wet dream." Be prepared!<BR/><BR/>mrs.chili, oddly enough, Em is still partly in that mode too. Sex is both icky and fascinating. We have talked about the fantasy of sex in these books. She says she understands, but...<BR/><BR/>antonia, not really worried, i mean we all snuck around and read our parent's porn or whatever they had. It is a strange thing to see her really becoming an adult. It's both gratifying and sad. This is one of the few human realtionships where the goal is to become less close over time, at least for a while.<BR/><BR/>qt, ooooh, Silhouette romances were the racy ones! Those weren't around when i was in HS. Darn!<BR/><BR/>MOI, i think you should write a romance after that bit. I hear it can be quite lucrative. :)<BR/><BR/>sari, stay tuned! Things will change.<BR/><BR/>lucia, you are so progressive. Plenty of sex, without that pesky romance.<BR/><BR/>bob, some people read them as a life long passion. I read EYWTKAS* too. It was full of misinformation.<BR/><BR/>lisa, sometimes it's a challenge to figure out what to do. I worry that i'm not restricting her life enough. But she's a bright girl and will just have to figure this stuff out for herself.<BR/><BR/>ss, older sisters can be a great source of information. i wish i'd had one!menohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18065283682414369608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1168960036197411322007-01-16T07:07:00.000-08:002007-01-16T07:07:00.000-08:00I can't wait for the vibrator story. I need all th...I can't wait for the vibrator story. <BR/><BR/>I need all the info & advice I can get, especially from such an awesome parent as you are. My girls are still under 6 y.o. so all this isn't close enough to freak me out yet. <BR/><BR/>Yet.peevishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14135920853307511091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1168958860255784182007-01-16T06:47:00.000-08:002007-01-16T06:47:00.000-08:00my mother kept a closet full of romance novels (an...my mother kept a closet full of romance novels (and still does, I think.) When I was a teenager I used to sneak through them occasionally looking for the juicy bits. The first I remember reading was Shanna by Kathleen Woodiwiss. I also remember "All You Wanted to Know About Sex* *but were afraid to ask".Bobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13690660290319444722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1168955079917038752007-01-16T05:44:00.000-08:002007-01-16T05:44:00.000-08:00I never read romances. I read Janis Joplin's bio ...I never read romances. I read Janis Joplin's bio instead. Plenty of sex in there.<BR/><BR/>I'm sure your blog post title attracted all sorts of interesting traffic from the blog search.Luciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05295553538430945014noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1168953653598786832007-01-16T05:20:00.000-08:002007-01-16T05:20:00.000-08:00My son watched Sandlot II the other night and said...My son watched Sandlot II the other night and said "It was good except for that part where they kissed."<BR/><BR/>Whew! Safe for another day. :-)sarihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16144333694009700155noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1168952313314112702007-01-16T04:58:00.000-08:002007-01-16T04:58:00.000-08:00Ah yes, if only things were as easy as when they w...Ah yes, if only things were as easy as when they were babies...and if only romance was exactly how it is depicted in those books! ("She threw all caution to the wind and let her *** soar...!")Mother of Inventionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03797365678860039018noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1168952255536647502007-01-16T04:57:00.000-08:002007-01-16T04:57:00.000-08:00I remember my friends and I used to pass around th...I remember my friends and I used to pass around the Silhouette Romances at that age. I got over it after a few months. But I DID have to hide them from my mom.<BR/><BR/>It is so cool that you share this stuff with Em. She is a lucky girl.QThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15544956727530046973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1168951555057381072007-01-16T04:45:00.000-08:002007-01-16T04:45:00.000-08:00Don't worry. My dear friend Caroline used to read ...Don't worry. My dear friend Caroline used to read these books as a teenager. Caroline is terribly bright, sensible and successful and married to one of the most charming men I've ever met, so the romance novels never did her any harm.<BR/><BR/>How strange it must be to watch your baby growing into an adult. I'm so impressed whenever you write about Em by how much of her life she shares with you.Antonia Cornwellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12754292976861979028noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1168949088358226692007-01-16T04:04:00.000-08:002007-01-16T04:04:00.000-08:00Heh. MY girls (seven and nine) are still in the "...Heh. MY girls (seven and nine) are still in the "sex is icky" phase. I'm not kidding myself into thinking that THAT will last long, though.<BR/><BR/>I should probably post my Viagra story. It's pretty flipping funny.<BR/><BR/>Lighten up, Mom. I'm echoing the sentiments here of people who are thrilled that she's not hiding them from you. <BR/><BR/>My biggest concern really? Not the sex, but the unrealistic portrayal of romance. How many relationships fail because women expect their men to behave like all the Trevors and Tristans they've read in romance novels? I have one of the happiest marriages I know of, and MY husband doesn't behave like that! I'd approach the trashy romance the same way I approach Barbie dolls: "You KNOW that no one looks like that in real life, right?"<BR/><BR/>And I can't wait for the vibrator story...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1168927988170566422007-01-15T22:13:00.000-08:002007-01-15T22:13:00.000-08:00egan, you need to have a few, and then you'll know...egan, you need to have a few, and then you'll know.....<BR/><BR/>sanjay, it's a new world every day, i swear.<BR/><BR/>u-u, they are hokey, and she knows that. But she is still interested. Oh, you read banned books! you are awesome!<BR/><BR/>cagey, judith krantz is really pretty bad. I never thought about the google hits. The cheesy counter i have doesn't do backtracking. I've never bothered to get another one because i no longer care about "hits." Juice, snicker.<BR/><BR/>mignon, oh remember the controversy over her? She dared to write about <I>masterbation</I>. I tried to write a sex scene once. i got too embarrassed to finish it.<BR/><BR/>ac, i never read that one, but i remember the title. They are racier nowadays.<BR/><BR/>nancy, you think you're immune because you have boys? Just you wait missy. You better get one to read!<BR/><BR/>princess, hell, she wants to share them with me. So who has the problem here? I think it's me.<BR/><BR/>mamap, they are standard man-woman stuff. And they were recommended by her girlfriend. She thinks she's bi. But i maintain that she doesn't really know yet. We shall see.<BR/><BR/>jen, you are a mom like you, and that's even better. you will handle all this with aplomb with your teenaged M, i am sure. It's just life and sex and feelings. I never did tell my mom anything either.menohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18065283682414369608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1168925664456682542007-01-15T21:34:00.000-08:002007-01-15T21:34:00.000-08:00i swear to god, i want to be a mom like you when I...i swear to god, i want to be a mom like you when I grow up. I really mean that, Meno. <BR/><BR/>I mean, seriously...I would have hid ALL OF THAT from my mom. All of it, because I never trusted her reaction.<BR/><BR/>She is a lucky girl.Girlplustwohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07056576921114387218noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1168922934212040742007-01-15T20:48:00.000-08:002007-01-15T20:48:00.000-08:00What I want to know is, are Em's books about girls...What I want to know is, are Em's books about girls or guys? Wasn't she into coming out as a statement, even though you thought it was a phase? (and all you readers, don't say it's none of my biz, because Meno posted that info!)Andrea Frazerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14293267612840259503noreply@blogger.com