tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post1204354385663098797..comments2023-12-16T22:38:40.273-08:00Comments on .: An insane womanmenohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18065283682414369608noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-86097725193234052792009-05-17T16:08:00.000-07:002009-05-17T16:08:00.000-07:00That first Step: Powerlessness
Once you get that ...That first Step: Powerlessness<br />Once you get that one, you're almost home free...Mrs4444https://www.blogger.com/profile/06426176094895489541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-49053144676119144462009-05-09T17:34:00.000-07:002009-05-09T17:34:00.000-07:00Me too! Me too! Me too! I did stop, but it is so d...Me too! Me too! Me too! I did stop, but it is so difficult to keep my mouth shut. I will start to say something and then realize, and say, that, I am not your mother. For so many years without realizing it, I tried to be. Then we read Harville Hendricks and realized I was just like his mother and that's the reason he married me! Who knew.luckyzmomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04176703683321469118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-30214444136939158752009-05-08T14:49:00.000-07:002009-05-08T14:49:00.000-07:00Remember. were guys. We're wired backwards. We hea...Remember. were guys. We're wired backwards. We hear the warnings and feel the love. We're just to dense to pick up the clue.Bradhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08680462833188999331noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-82616006419154959362009-05-07T20:08:00.000-07:002009-05-07T20:08:00.000-07:00Don't give up. Keep going. It will keep you sane, ...Don't give up. Keep going. It will keep you sane, I promise.The Real Mother Henhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13226727195920798035noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-45198818049711799842009-05-07T17:59:00.000-07:002009-05-07T17:59:00.000-07:00jen, have you been drinking enough water? Eating ...jen, have you been drinking enough water? Eating your veggies? Good girl!<br /><br />bob, London? I'm THERE! Yeah, some things have consequences beyond the individual.<br /><br />hearts. that expression crossed my mind too.<br /><br />egan, you are a faster learner than i. Must be all those brains.<br /><br />mrs. chili, we'll see if that's true.<br /><br />de, well said. I have to think about that.<br /><br />marsha, good memory you have there girl! That is really what i am doing, allowing what i though would happen to happen.<br /><br />equally insane, my beast is all over the text messaging!!<br /><br />furious, who wouldn't<br /><br />holly, you know, someday i just might take you up on that.<br /><br />deb, but it's not really unsolicited. Putting it out there is tantamount to inviting advice.menohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18065283682414369608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-42172342414832945292009-05-07T07:46:00.000-07:002009-05-07T07:46:00.000-07:00I'm learning that people don't change, unless they...I'm learning that people don't change, unless they want to. Nor do they like or appreciate unsolicited advice, which of course I'm giving you now. And yeah, I see the irony in this.<br /><br />I had to look up Soylent Green. Gross!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-14607375335878766962009-05-07T07:25:00.000-07:002009-05-07T07:25:00.000-07:00it's sometimes difficult to part with the old ways...it's sometimes difficult to part with the old ways, even when they don't work. there's comfort in the routine. <br /><br />come down this way, I'll take your advice, your figurative chicken soup, some ibuprofen, and I'll even offer you a glass (or 10) of wine and some stimulating convo.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-34718728102095950722009-05-07T06:36:00.000-07:002009-05-07T06:36:00.000-07:00i want to bite QTi want to bite QTfuriousBallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11158133736035219163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-92176969260999171932009-05-07T05:53:00.000-07:002009-05-07T05:53:00.000-07:00You can change how it impacts you, but you cannot ...You can change how it impacts you, but you cannot change the inner nature of the beast. Maybe your beast and my beast can exchange text messages about not feeling 100%.Equally Insane but not so Wisenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-74365511136313884582009-05-07T05:41:00.000-07:002009-05-07T05:41:00.000-07:00Advice is a tricky thing both the giving and takin...Advice is a tricky thing both the giving and taking. I am so extremely mainipulative and sure that I am right I will often stay up into the night trying to find new ways of presenting the same old advice. New things to say and do to get him to hear me. <br /><br />I seem to remember you saying that this new job would do this to him. Perhaps it is just a mountain he feels he has to scale. Something he has to conquer in order to feel like he matters. Perhaps his focus isn't on feeling good physically but in winning this battle. Perhaps your advice should focus on that. Like I bet if you ate, slept, excercised a little bit more you would be able to accomplish more at work - have more stamina, a clearer head etc. Men's perspective I think is different. At least my husband's is. He isn't concerned at all in feeling good and being at peace like me. He wants accomplishment and to be able to endure more than everyone else.Marshamlowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00604324969370405697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-68883957287647359952009-05-07T05:27:00.000-07:002009-05-07T05:27:00.000-07:00the arrogance is in thinking that the concern is i...the arrogance is in thinking that the concern is invalidated if the advice is not taken.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-86860136283372370722009-05-07T04:29:00.000-07:002009-05-07T04:29:00.000-07:00Letting go, while sometimes difficult to actually ...Letting go, while sometimes difficult to actually do, can be SO freeing...Mrs. Chilihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09814787474739856911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-6198724858225382002009-05-07T01:49:00.000-07:002009-05-07T01:49:00.000-07:00This is one of life's toughest challenges. Do you...This is one of life's toughest challenges. Do you continue to "coach", knowing it won't really help things in the long run or not. <br /><br />I learned at an early age to not expect people to change, but to learn to live with who they are.eganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03783658744477659987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-24763859644328402992009-05-06T23:45:00.000-07:002009-05-06T23:45:00.000-07:00I'm sorry. Leading horses to water comes to mind h...I'm sorry. Leading horses to water comes to mind here. It's painful to care more for someone than he does for himself, but it isn't arrogant. Just sad.heartinsanfranciscohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07535397382991383931noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-88230887015894462692009-05-06T21:52:00.000-07:002009-05-06T21:52:00.000-07:00If I had an extra suitcase, I'd let you burn off s...If I had an extra suitcase, I'd let you burn off some of that extra energy in London.<br /><br />There are some lessons people have to learn for themselves. The bitch is that they aren't the only ones that wind up getting hurt.<br /><br />I'm sorry.Bobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13690660290319444722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-58028362138808697272009-05-06T20:46:00.000-07:002009-05-06T20:46:00.000-07:00i think you should come over to my house. i'd tota...i think you should come over to my house. i'd totally exploit you and let you take care of me.Girlplustwohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07056576921114387218noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-72983021303813504072009-05-06T20:30:00.000-07:002009-05-06T20:30:00.000-07:00qt, Hah haa hahah ha! I'm thinking of inventing a...qt, Hah haa hahah ha! I'm thinking of inventing a new way to achieve orgasm. :)menohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18065283682414369608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-29045319392187831642009-05-06T20:16:00.000-07:002009-05-06T20:16:00.000-07:00What will you do with all that extra energy, I won...What will you do with all that extra energy, I wonder? :)QThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15544956727530046973noreply@blogger.com