tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post116371812050278134..comments2023-12-16T22:38:40.273-08:00Comments on .: In which i am wrong (or hasty) IIImenohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18065283682414369608noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1163869271628489342006-11-18T09:01:00.000-08:002006-11-18T09:01:00.000-08:00mamap, it was not you that i was referring to, but...mamap, it was not you that i was referring to, but the fact that it might have been is telling.<BR/><BR/>moi, you're welcome :)menohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18065283682414369608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1163868211539379902006-11-18T08:43:00.000-08:002006-11-18T08:43:00.000-08:00I do the same thing Maggie! I'm so glad I'm not a...I do the same thing Maggie! I'm so glad I'm not at school this year though. Stress is way over the top. A teacher can never be done her/his job. You always feel just adequate. Thanks, Meno for listening to this teacher.Mother of Inventionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03797365678860039018noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1163819248678290022006-11-17T19:07:00.000-08:002006-11-17T19:07:00.000-08:00Regarding a few posts back, I think it's best to s...Regarding a few posts back, I think it's best to stay true to being a motivating person. You will only lose out if you shut up your true soul. As far as the chasm between two people in marriage, god do I understand. Not sure if you were referring to me with the post as the person who talked about this earlier this week, but if not, you can add me down as a third person. More comments on this on Maggie's blog. As usual, you get me thinking. You're doing a good thing. Now shut off the computer and emote with the hubster.Andrea Frazerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14293267612840259503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1163798720038375542006-11-17T13:25:00.000-08:002006-11-17T13:25:00.000-08:00hi patches, there is no time limit for comments. ...hi patches, there is no time limit for comments. :) See, you can de-motivate someone much more easily than to motivate the slackers. Their loss!<BR/><BR/>nancy, oh boy, i look forward to your story. And isn't that illegal?<BR/><BR/>u-u, that's nauseating "abreast me of your druthers" Ick. But it is good story fodder!<BR/><BR/>holly, i was much more motivated when i worked. Now that i have no schedule i can't seem to get a damn thing done. I think it's because (ala Scarlett) "There's always tomorrow."<BR/><BR/>chani, me too! (for Nancy's story) Your description of the workplace makes me feel so lucky to not be in it anymore.<BR/><BR/>jen, yeah, like many fantasies, it's probably better to remain unfulfilled. Although, there is this really cool video store in Seattle that is famous for it's cool movies and surly, but knowledgable employees.<BR/><BR/>hi de, i hadn't thought of that, but i believe you are right, they are unhappy.<BR/><BR/>sanjay, good, i am glad i got some pushback on my last post so that i could explain.<BR/><BR/>qt, sounds like you might need to have a chat with your assistant. Or continue to do it yourself.<BR/><BR/>maggie, i don't think it's insane. The same thing has happened to me since i don't work. No one to impress so i have to motivate myself however i can. Maybe with Dulce con Leche ice cream this afternoon. mmm.<BR/><BR/>bob, you know, that was a bit of a rant! And i like it. Because i nodded along with you as i read.menohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18065283682414369608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1163777904968717702006-11-17T07:38:00.000-08:002006-11-17T07:38:00.000-08:00These are people that you cannot motivate. I have...These are people that you cannot motivate. I have found that there are certain people who do just enough to get by. They aren't really enterested in the job, it is the paycheck they are after - a means to some other end. So, if they aren't interested in the job, how can you motivate them to do anything? If there aren't any consequences for underperforming (i.e. they have found a level of performance that keeps them in the job) then why should they do more?<BR/><BR/>There's another class of people - those who look at their employer as an enemy. They are there to do as little as possible and are proud of the fact that they are earning as much as Joe over there (who is always worried about doing a good job and is always trying to do better) but are doing so much less. Joe is a sucker to them. It isn't even principled - like you saw in the 60's and early 70's where people were anti-corporate or anti-establishment and the agenda was to enlighten the enslaved masses by doing as little as they could or working to change from within, etc. This type of person is motivated by how much advantage can be taken over others, and you see this in all other aspects of their lives - not just at work. It is a very selfish attitude and is very often associated with the attitude that the world owes them something.Bobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13690660290319444722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1163775187240208892006-11-17T06:53:00.000-08:002006-11-17T06:53:00.000-08:00I was always a highly motivated worker. Of course...I was always a highly motivated worker. Of course raising a kid by yourself is a great motivator, but that didn't seem to wear off once I was married. But here at home, I go in spurts. I get totally into my routine and doing extra stuff about the house and at other times, I have to force myself at pain of death (ok not really death) to get moving. Sometimes I dangle my own carrots. Like, if I get this minimum done today I'm going to treat myself to x y z. Is that insane?Lynneahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08255266354171825474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1163767986336698992006-11-17T04:53:00.000-08:002006-11-17T04:53:00.000-08:00I usually get all fired up at work and go like gan...I usually get all fired up at work and go like gangbusters for awhile, then have a month of what I like to call "downtime". <BR/><BR/>I only have to manage my assistant, but sometimes that is difficult as he likes to avoid problems & confrontation rather than proactively seek the solution. So I end up doing it myself....QThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15544956727530046973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1163766532038597172006-11-17T04:28:00.000-08:002006-11-17T04:28:00.000-08:00I can see what you meant by no being able to motiv...I can see what you meant by no being able to motivate some folks.karmichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10973922761187532706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1163765659824219832006-11-17T04:14:00.000-08:002006-11-17T04:14:00.000-08:00Yes, thanks for elucidating. It's a bad situation...Yes, thanks for elucidating. It's a bad situation all right - the people in your position are unhappy, and i truly belive, the people who are dead before their time are unhappy too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1163741390680800492006-11-16T21:29:00.000-08:002006-11-16T21:29:00.000-08:00argh...i sometimes fantasize about my mindless dre...argh...i sometimes fantasize about my mindless dream job (video store clerk, if you are interested) but this sort of changed my mind...Girlplustwohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07056576921114387218noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1163739597373717252006-11-16T20:59:00.000-08:002006-11-16T20:59:00.000-08:00Looking forward to Nancy's blog tomorrow. Sounds l...Looking forward to Nancy's blog tomorrow. Sounds like an interesting story. <BR/><BR/>As for motivation in the workplace, I admit it... it was never there for me. I was too busy and exhausted from trying to dodge psychic bullets from negative, competitive, self-interested bullies, all climbing over each other trying to get a little nugget of merit. All I wanted was OUT! It made me physically, emotionally and spiritually sick. <BR/><BR/>However, give me a project that I care about and I am totally internal locus, have no problem motivating myself. If anything, I become obsessed.thailandchanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10171731740204067889noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1163738568033817312006-11-16T20:42:00.000-08:002006-11-16T20:42:00.000-08:00I have the HARDEST time motivating myself. there ...I have the HARDEST time motivating myself. there are so many things that I WANT to do, everyday, but it's a real effort to make myself put down my book, or push away from the computer, and get up and do what needs to be done. I really have no idea why this is, especially seeing as how most of these tasks are things that I enjoy.<BR/><BR/>I thinks it's that sometimes (most times, honestly), I. just. don't. care.<BR/><BR/>when I was gainfully employed, I was very motivated, which earned me lots of praise from my supervisors. during my short back-to-work stint, I went from underpaid walmart drone to slightly less-underpaid department manager drone within a week of working there, so I know that from the outside, I appear to be interested in my surroundings.<BR/><BR/>I'm sorry, I guess there really is no point to this comment, I just recognized myself, for a minute, there...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1163736408066378122006-11-16T20:06:00.000-08:002006-11-16T20:06:00.000-08:00Oh I hate the synergy word- blech. what's worse t...Oh I hate the synergy word- blech. what's worse than an unmotivated worker is an incompetent boss. <BR/><BR/>I had one who LOVED the word synergy. And she would say things like 'abreast me of your druthers." WTF? My husband (boyfriend at the time) loved my daily email rantings about her and her vocabulary gems.urban-urchinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18001320142893492171noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1163733157218808782006-11-16T19:12:00.000-08:002006-11-16T19:12:00.000-08:00Wow. Where is this place, and are they taking appl...Wow. Where is this place, and are they taking applications... <BR/>(I only ask because I was fired from my last job for blowing a whistle on a dirty old man. Details to follow tomorrow on my blog. I'm suffering return-to-work anxiety).Nancy Dancehallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14169976337329559458noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-1163729943217448992006-11-16T18:19:00.000-08:002006-11-16T18:19:00.000-08:00I know I'm a day late but....here goes.I was a mot...I know I'm a day late but....here goes.<BR/><BR/>I was a motivated worker employed at a mid-sized family-owned business for eight years, unfortunately it wasn't my family. Instead of moving up, I found myself cleaning up after others who were less effective, lazy or just plain incompetent. The owners were understanding in regard to employee error, which I could appreciate. Unfortunately, with no consequences for poor performance, many of the employees skated by doing far less than the minimum. <BR/><BR/>In December, I walked out. I couldn't bear the thought of spinning my wheels in vain, while others dragged their feet knowing there wouldn't be any repercussions. It made me feel ineffective even though I was a worker bee. <BR/><BR/>I agree with the carrot theory, but who has time to look for 150 different varieties of carrots. As for motivating children, I couldn't say....I've raised three cats and the water hose is an excellent motivator:)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com