tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post8703557160355907960..comments2023-12-16T22:38:40.273-08:00Comments on .: a small scenemenohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18065283682414369608noreply@blogger.comBlogger31125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-31773085347482207122007-11-17T17:25:00.000-08:002007-11-17T17:25:00.000-08:00Velly interesting and thought provoking.....flirti...Velly interesting and thought provoking.....flirting as aggression.....hmmmm.luckyzmomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04176703683321469118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-90404348198198374762007-11-13T11:58:00.000-08:002007-11-13T11:58:00.000-08:00No, you are!No, you are!eganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03783658744477659987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-81769516258593819092007-11-13T11:56:00.000-08:002007-11-13T11:56:00.000-08:00EW. ICK. UGH.That's really all.EW. ICK. UGH.<BR/>That's really all.Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00900726730265994177noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-13363968045741464752007-11-13T08:28:00.000-08:002007-11-13T08:28:00.000-08:00lynn, you are a good friend!ttq, nothing fun. We ...lynn, you are a good friend!<BR/><BR/>ttq, nothing fun. We were just seeking one of the thirteen or so different weird light bulbs that our house requires.<BR/><BR/>liv, i wasn't skeeved, i wasn't even peeved. I was bemused.<BR/><BR/>egan, you are so sweet.<BR/><BR/>stucco, if two people are flirting, and both are into it, it's not agression, it's fun. Well, maybe except for the witnesses, who might be rolling their eyes.<BR/><BR/>sari, lunch WAS good. <BR/><BR/>popeye, yeah, i'm not a flirt, so i sort of look at people who do it inappropriately as if they were from Mars.<BR/><BR/>my pool, dangerous or disturbed. Or just odd.<BR/><BR/>pam, That might be a valid theory if it wasn't for my previous experience with her. Sad and embarrassing is more in line with what i felt.<BR/><BR/>mamap, i don't mind either, unless that line gets crossed. He's married, not dead. But in this case it was all one sided.<BR/><BR/>capacious, i have learned exactly that, to trust my instincts.<BR/><BR/>princess e, not worried, really jusr bemused and enjoying the different ways we viewed the interaction.menohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18065283682414369608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-10489736626650607982007-11-13T05:59:00.000-08:002007-11-13T05:59:00.000-08:00The mister defnitely handled that one with gracce ...The mister defnitely handled that one with gracce - a lot of others would have choked - you've got nothing to worry about...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-51111684191673427162007-11-13T05:24:00.000-08:002007-11-13T05:24:00.000-08:00There are so many layers to any interaction. In g...There are so many layers to any interaction. In general, I believe instincts should be heeded.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-7117136882334504092007-11-12T20:29:00.000-08:002007-11-12T20:29:00.000-08:00My husband gets flirted with a lot. In front of me...My husband gets flirted with a lot. In front of me. It only pisses me off when it crosses the line. That happened with a friend, once, and I put a stop to that right away.Andrea Frazerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14293267612840259503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-16780812803775539102007-11-12T20:07:00.000-08:002007-11-12T20:07:00.000-08:00Meno, what if she was trying to impress you-throug...Meno, what if she was trying to impress you-through-Mister??<BR/><BR/>What if she was a little in awe of you; maybe envious of you and was vying for your attention but in a slightly offbeat crazy way? (I think I've thrown up this possibility from your husband saying, "he feeling she didn't like him, he felt creepy talking to her....")<BR/><BR/>Just brainstorming, she sounds a little sad. A little embarrassing alrighty.Siennahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15387267690900119245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-76657870252562918122007-11-12T18:30:00.000-08:002007-11-12T18:30:00.000-08:00Of course flirting as aggression! She used him to ...Of course flirting as aggression! She used him to lessen your status and she used her flirting with him to gain a control position with him. She is a dangerous kind of woman.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-33692082263434133682007-11-12T18:28:00.000-08:002007-11-12T18:28:00.000-08:00Eeeeeeeew.Eeeeeeeew.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-15620064326656017002007-11-12T14:36:00.000-08:002007-11-12T14:36:00.000-08:00I'm glad you left her and at least got on to a goo...I'm glad you left her and at least got on to a good lunch!sarihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16144333694009700155noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-60681316678089236422007-11-12T14:03:00.000-08:002007-11-12T14:03:00.000-08:00Schmoopie told me that before we were together I w...Schmoopie told me that before we were together I was a relentless and unabashed flirt, but I don't remember it quite that way. It wasn't as though I'd just up and spout off "Hey lady! Nice tits!" or such. Schmoop told me to knock it off, and I just stick to internet porn now (I mean- you KNOW the internet was invented by horny old men, right?), but your tale now has me reflecting on my "aggressive" past. <BR/><BR/>Then again, in the immortal words of Eddie Murphy in 48 Hours- "Lack of pussy makes you brave!". Amen.Stuccohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11486166896422212439noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-39092053160944937582007-11-12T14:01:00.000-08:002007-11-12T14:01:00.000-08:00Flirting as aggression huh? That's an interesting ...Flirting as aggression huh? That's an interesting spin. You know, I used to work with a girl who flirted with our boss (OPENLY) as a way of "putting it to" me. I never understood it. But now it makes a little more sense.Tinkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16188363142469404823noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-47326985865929915342007-11-12T12:03:00.000-08:002007-11-12T12:03:00.000-08:00Maybe she's a lonely person and The Mister was one...Maybe she's a lonely person and The Mister was one of the few people to lend her a sympathetic ear? Just a thought.eganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03783658744477659987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-53633339356704568412007-11-12T10:36:00.000-08:002007-11-12T10:36:00.000-08:00That was totally weird. I would be skeeved out.That was totally weird. I would be skeeved out.Livhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09154719979114564561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-66827419174931041612007-11-11T20:48:00.000-08:002007-11-11T20:48:00.000-08:00Nobody asked the most important question....What k...Nobody asked the most important question....<BR/><BR/>What kind of new appliance did you get?????TTQhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09888187290526881563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-75302107753402872852007-11-11T19:23:00.000-08:002007-11-11T19:23:00.000-08:00That woman is a bitch, in the true sense of the wo...That woman is a bitch, in the true sense of the word!Lynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12994258976391146989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-51936322045117161352007-11-11T19:22:00.000-08:002007-11-11T19:22:00.000-08:00marsha, it would be weird to get into her head, bu...marsha, it would be weird to get into her head, but i can't imagine it would be pleasant.<BR/><BR/>dick, i only flirt with someone if i know that they know that there is NO WAY i am serious. You are sweet to say that most of us are attractive. I mostly agree with you.<BR/><BR/>flutter, yeah, she always struck me as a bit creepy.<BR/><BR/>mrs. chili, yeah, i think we are both relatively sensitive to the nuances of interaction.<BR/><BR/>joan, i thought that was fascinating too. It was fun to sit there and talk it over and realize that basically, we were both made uncomfortable by her.<BR/><BR/>nancy, it is icky. I'll be right over after this.<BR/><BR/>ms. chica, i think you have it. That's my sense of it too.<BR/><BR/>qt, that's why it's uncomfortable to watch, because she has such a different view.<BR/><BR/>em, it would be interesting. My guess is that she would totally be shocked and deny it.<BR/><BR/>maggie, Yes, she always did go straight for the Mister if he was around. I'm glad she's not around anymore.<BR/><BR/>crazymumma, strange is a good word. It's like WTF woman?<BR/><BR/>moi, oh he could tell, after a few minutes.<BR/><BR/>chani, i don't mind flirting, unless it makes anyone else uncomfortable. And there's a time and place for it too, not just anywhere.menohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18065283682414369608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-11247609387657813322007-11-11T17:24:00.000-08:002007-11-11T17:24:00.000-08:00I have never cared much for flirting, don't find i...I have never cared much for flirting, don't find it particularly amusing or cute. It would have annoyed me not because of any jealousy.. but just the presumptuousness of it.thailandchanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10171731740204067889noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-86228759683214844052007-11-11T17:17:00.000-08:002007-11-11T17:17:00.000-08:00It's funny and always interesting how people can f...It's funny and always interesting how people can feel and respond so differently to the same situation. Men are thick spmetimes and I find they don't always know when a babe is flirting or chasing!Mother of Inventionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03797365678860039018noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-8224502798959157232007-11-11T16:28:00.000-08:002007-11-11T16:28:00.000-08:00to say Hi mister to him with you around is just so...to say Hi mister to him with you around is just so intimate without intimacy reciprocated. Strange woman.crazymummahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04663148723513574331noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-17612804756190397612007-11-11T14:59:00.000-08:002007-11-11T14:59:00.000-08:00You know what else about it is weird? She address...You know what else about it is weird? She addressed only the Mister first. I had visions of women in movies like fatal attraction. Or The Hand that Rocks the Cradle. As though she definitely wants something out of her interactions not only with him but you too. Evil creepy and manipulative.Lynneahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08255266354171825474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-7420758713432964982007-11-11T14:32:00.000-08:002007-11-11T14:32:00.000-08:00What an odd moment and scene. It would be interest...What an odd moment and scene. It would be interesting to know how it seems in her head...and interesting to know how she would feel if she knew how she was perceived.Emhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14063254538593495040noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-48864134154254809722007-11-11T14:06:00.000-08:002007-11-11T14:06:00.000-08:00I have to agree with ms. chica. And what fun is it...I have to agree with ms. chica. And what fun is it anyway if the other person isn't interested?QThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15544956727530046973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30306964.post-44372905115722323792007-11-11T13:57:00.000-08:002007-11-11T13:57:00.000-08:00I don't see why flirting is even worth the effort ...I don't see why flirting is even worth the effort if someone doesn't flirt back. It sounds like she was the type of person who felt powerful when she made people uncomfortable.ms chicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11281861496244331321noreply@blogger.com